My husband and I have what some might call a non-traditional relationship... We were high school sweethearts who ended up going to different colleges and managed to keep the relationship together. You might be thinking what’s non-traditional about that? Well, let me tell you. After graduating from college my husband, then my bf, got a job [...]
I’m Childfree By Choice: So Please Stop Bingoing Me!
I went back and forth about whether or not I wanted to write this for this platform. Everywhere I go I see post after post saying people without kids are "assholes", "rude," "mean," "selfish," and every other word in the book. This post originally appeared on my facebook, but I wanted to add it here [...]
On Agency, #Jayz444, #443chat, & a Woman’s Burden
I’m a Jay-Z fan. I will argue anyone nine ways til’ Sunday about why the Black Album is one of the greatest albums ever made—not greatest rap, not greatest hip hop, but actual factual greatest albums ever. Before 4:44 dropped, I found myself debating the same concepts across differing communities... For some reason, marriage and [...]
Welcome to the Mental Health & Relationships Column!
As a Black woman, I am focused on the healing, uplifting, and empowerment of my sisters in every area of their lives, be it family, cou47f1641b7cf2a96d8493ac275b55be82.jpgple relationships, friendships, or career. I believe that we have been taught to take care of everyone but ourselves. Part of our liberation is through caring for ourselves first.